4/8/2024
While things are getting better a lot of things are still a trainwreck on my end.
While my cat has responded to the thyroid medication, she can’t take it as a pill which is the prime reason for all of her side effects (including being vomity as all hell)
So the mighty 15 year old furball is going to be getting a topical gel in her ears, and is on anti-nausea medication and a reduced dose of the pills until she can get on the gel.
That’s one thing that’s getting better…on the other hand, the day after I posted my message about things going on pause, an elderly family member banged themselves up in a fall and is still recovering.
So we are still in wait and see mode over here. When we know more, you’ll know more. š
My first reaction was: “At least she’s being honest with him”. However, the more I think about it, the more I realise that there is a debate about whether honesty’s the best policy in a situation like this:
The more he knows, the greater the risk he’s taking. However, the fact that she’s opening up is a sign of trust. Then there’s the question of whether it’s her call to make or his.
It’s an emotional and moral minefield. I can’t decide with Calliel or Aya is making the right call.
This needed to be done before the danger hit, not after. She’s endangered his life – without his permission – by waiting. Courage is good. Judgment is better. As old as she is, she should be better at it.
The more he knows, the greater the risk he’s taking. However, the fact that she’s opening up is a sign of trust. Then there’s the question of whether it’s her call to make or his.
It’s an emotional and moral minefield. I can’t decide with Calliel or Aya is making the right call.